Bitmapman, let me just put my 2 cents into the mix. First, stop apologizing. You're in the right forum to ask questions from a newbie's perspective. I am no expert on the USMC or on being an officer of any type other an Army career noncom. I spent my life in the Army Infantry.
My advice would echo that of others here. I would say find your personal motivation. Decide why you want to be in the military at all and what you think you can contribute in terms of personal strengths.
If I was in your position and from what you have said, I would seriously take your desire not to be aboard ship for long periods of time into consideration. I don't think any Marine should expect not to have that duty at some point during his career. If, on the other hand it's just a preference and you can live with such an assignment although it might not be your first choice, then that too should be considered.
What are your strengths? Are you a natural leader? Do you like physical activity? Are you naturally disciplined and self-motivated? Do you like to be in the outdoors, etc...
All these may sound like simple questions but I couldn't begin to tell you how many people I have run across that would have been much better suited to another job than an infantryman. It's not an easy life regardless of which branch you choose to do it. When you're infantry, you won't be in search of challenges for very long.
As far as those commercials are concerned, they are just commercials. Don't give them any more credence than they deserve.
Each of the services (and I mean every one) has a sense of pride, an esprit de corps. I don't know anyone who has honorably served who was not proud, and rightfully so, of their branch.
The "coolness" factor will quickly fade as a concept once you begin your career. It'll be more a matter of how much effort you are willing to put into your job than what a civilian may think of your uniform color or your shiny boots that will determine what you get out of it.
Go ahead and ask whatever questions you have. At the end of the day, I'm sure that whatever your decision is, you'll discover that your commitment and dedication to becoming the best soldier you can be will be what's most important to you and to those who serve with you.
Thank you kindly for your wisdom.
As for the excessive apologies, I got the impression from some of the earlier responses that I wasn't being as respectful as I should be. That's all I was trying to do, show that I do hold military service in the highest of regards.
And I am set on some form of Infantry, regardless of branch. I can't see myself enjoying anything else very much.
I didn't mention this before, but I'm an Eagle scout, and I love the outdoors. I go on long backpacking trips in the wilderness all the time. I do feel I have natural leadership qualities, especially under stress. I keep a cool head under pressure (in stark contrast with my mother).
I've been giving it some thought, and perhaps the whole ship thing wouldn't be so bad. I had what you'd call a "bad experience" with a boat when I was much younger, and they still make me a little nervous, but I don't doubt my ability to get over it.
Also, from my painfully civilian perspective, the Marines hold a certain mystique for me. I know their reputation for being tough, proud, and disciplined, and I don't think that reputation would materialize from nothing. There must be at least some truth to it.
While I understand that all branches have pride in what they do, there's something attractive about the strong brotherhood aspect of the Corps for which they are so reknowned. It's something I really want to be a part of.
Alright, here's my revised plan:
I'll attend Marine Option NROTC at first (no scholarship attempt), and if I don't like it, I'll head over to Army ROTC instead.
I can do that, right? Leave one program since I have no obligation and then head over to the other? Not that I'm planning on it. I have a feeling the Marines are what I really want.
And I find that it's sometimes better to go with your gut feeling.
When I began looking into the military a few months ago, I started out looking at the Marines. But I thought Temple only had Army ROTC. Now that I know I can become a Marine through Temple... maybe it's best to go with my first choice.
Again, I greatly appreciate the assistance. You guys have been great and have told me exactly what I've wanted to know.
Thanks,
Luke