And take this for what its worth, if you don't think you'll make it through RIP or Ranger school... you WONT. No one else can tell you what is the right fit for you. My advice is to find a recruiter or an active duty service member in the branch you are thinking of after researching it on your own so you don't waste their time and then ask them intelligent questions about what its like and what to expect and then see what fits you.
I'm sorry, this was also a fairly stupid question, in retrospect.
It's a very difficult decision, and one that will pretty much map out the remainder of my life.
I don't know what I was hoping for. No magic answer will float to me, and I know that.
Upon rereading my post, I've realized that I have indirectly insulted Army Infantry via omission. I didn't even mention them. Sorry! Anyone who joins the military has my total respect.
I will definitely do myself some more research on the matter.
But, there are still a couple questions in my mind about the differences between the two branches.
In the USMC, how much time on average would one expect to spend aboard a ship? Keep in mind I'm talking about infantry. If the Marines spend months of their time couped up aboard a ship, they may not be for me. I am a big guy, about six foot five, and I love big wide open spaces. As in, not the interior of a ship.
And, not to be rude or presumptuous, are the Marines really all they're played up to be? I know their whole thing on the commercials and information on their website is that they are the best; The Few, The Proud, The Marines. But are they really that much better?
Please don't see this in any way as belittlement of the Corps, I am honestly curious. Do keep in mind that my perspective is totally civilian, and I am asking these questions hoping for an affirmation of the Marines' reputation.
Because, if that is the case, and the Marines really are the best, then perhaps the unpleasant time spent aboard a ship would be worth it.
Thanks,
Luke