I agree with you there RnderSafe..
But:
"War is delightful to those who have had no experience of it. "
- Desiderius Erasmus
We have (almost) always played war in some way.
Cowboys and Indians, Paintball, computer games etc. etc.....
Making a potential dangerous thing "safe" can be a great "kick" for most of us.
Some examples here are skydiving, bungee jumping, diving with sharks etc....
I think it's ok as long as you're not glorifying war, but also think about "what if this was real life?.."
I must admit that I have had a lot of fun during exercises, especially during laser combat simulation, but we do ALWAYS focus on the question "what if this was real life", before, during and after "action".
Getting shot at is not fun (in real life)!
After my service abroad I have a completelly different view on war/conflict..
one quote that I think is very good:
"I hate war as only a soldier who has lived it can, only as one who has seen its brutality, its futility, its stupidity."
-General Dwight D. Eisenhower
I haven't been in real combat, but I have experienced and seen lots of terrorist attacks, Israelis vs. Terrorists, Israelis/Lebanese vs. Norwegians etc....
So; No, war isn't fun, but.....:
"It is well that war is so terrible, else we should grow too fond of it."
- General Robert E. Lee
http://www.military-quotes.com/war-quotes.htm
Join the Army and go abroad if you want to play war, and you might get quite a different focus on it.
But it still can be a fun thing to "simulate", as long as you do it for the right reasons..