Do you think a virgin wife is important?

Do you mind if your wife is not a virgin?

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Yea, I hate It how girls though have adjusted to that attitude. It seems like people these days just wanna "do something" as my friend puts it, then move on. It's dumb, because nice guys like me who want to meet girls for more then just sex are slowly being ostracized from the teen dating scene.
 
People dp grow out of that phase. I went through a brief "one night stand" phase around age 24/25. Alot of people do. I think its because you realize you ae going to settle down soon, and you kind of go a little nuts.
 
Hey GOTR, i know what you mean, and then when people like us refuse to look at the class porn magazine(yes, my school is so bad they actually pass around porn magazines in class) we are called gay, what is up with that, nowadays if you think of a woman as anything more than a sex object your peers refer to you as a homo. what is up with that.
 
well not that its picky or anything..but i think i would rather my woman betrothed to me be a virgin..because if my wife is a virgin im going to be in a a lot of trouble.

just thought id mention it... :D
 
I believe in strong, long relationships, but I also believe in living life. I won't go into some of my situations, but it got to the point that at one time, I would have done it just to get pregnant, cause at least I knew my kid might love me. Jeez, I"m glad I'm over those days.

Yes, there are times I wish I could lie about the things I did, especially when a guy asks, but there are never times when I regret anything. Love hits everyone at different times in life... and sometimes it just screws you over.

Anyways, I respect anyone about their decision, as long as they don't "do it just to do it". I think that's gross.
 
Love does not screw over, people will screw other people over but love is not capable of anything but good, GOTR, there is a verse in Psalms or Proverbs that mentions what love is, do you by any chance no what it is because i totally forgot, i don't get much sleep where i live, heck i never get sleep where i live.
 
I waited a long time and well into my adult life.

I regret not waiting longer.

A "virgin" is not important. What is important is the committment ou make.

Mrs. AE and I will be married forever. I may not have waited for all of it (and deeply regret it), but I certainly waited for the right woman to marry.

Didn't take the vows until I was 28. My first child/son was born 10 months later. We were mature enough, financially ready (though, in truth, no one ever feels truly financially ready), and comitted to raising our children.

It's nothing worth jeopardizing your future over.

It really isn't.
 
Personally, I don't really care if she's a virgin or not. As long as she doesn't have any STD's, I'm a happy camper.
 
Then it shouldn't matter one way or another if she is a virgin or not.


GuyontheRight said:
Marrige does not revolve around sex, as our idiot culture so likes to think :roll:
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NCdt Steliga said:
Personally, I don't really care if she's a virgin or not. As long as she doesn't have any STD's, I'm a happy camper.
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same here...i'm a talking paradox in this thread. I tend to walk on the borderline in most things in life.
 
Alright, I understand where everyone is coming from. I'm staying away from this topic... it makes me feel kinda guilty....
 
Just to make this clear, I dont mean to sound like Im coming off as an individual who takes a harlined, white and black stance on the issue. However, I think as a teenager In today's day In age, Ive earned a right to form the opinions that our mine based on my experiences.
 
my opinion is: virginity is precious and sacred (male or female).. what you do with your virginity is up to you and your philosophy of life.

but there will be consequences or regret, or probably happiness later...
 
Too much about virginity, not a big issue contemplating marraige. :roll: :roll: :roll:
 
silent driller said:
...It shows patience, too. One needs patience to raise kids ;)
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LOL..... amen on that one!

I think it's great that people decide to wait till marriage, it shows alot of respect for yourself and partner :)


GUNNER
 
This is an interesting debate. I used to say it depends on how you were raised ETC ETC. However my brother and I have completely different perspectives. My brother believes he should wait for Ms. Right and hope that her first name isn't Always. I will offer my take on this topic. When you get married you want to find someone you want to spend your life with. We all want that special someone. However it isn't just emotional, I would not want to get married to someone who I was blind to "physically." When I say compatable I don't mean exactly alike. A relationship like many friendships NEEDS conflict to survive. It is just a fact. I am not saying all out WAR here but a certain amount of objectivity is healthy. I also believe that I am young man, 24, my brother is 19. He has no VICES in which I complement in regularly on. However when you are young you have a kind of get out of jail free care so to speak. This is when society expects you to screw up, and learn from your mistakes. Because when he reaches 35-40 years old I think he may look back and wish he had done more with his youth. I am not saying doing stupid stuff but living life a little.

As far as the Virgin wife goes I would not want to have one. Unless of course that love bug bit me and I fell head over heels for her. You can't explain love but hey it happens. I would not want one for the reason that I want to be absolutely sure that I was the perfect match for her Physically and emotionally. Now many people are different, then can go with not knowing but if a person is going to be a match for me they are going to have an insatiable curiosity and I would want it fulfilled prior to marriage.
 
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