Insomniac
~resident nutcase
Right, this is off a person on VampireFreaks who has not got the first clue about it i think. here are her problems:
That's pretty much pure copypasta, with slight editing for clarity.
so, your advice? i will pass all advice on to her.
thanks in advance.
vampirefreaks girl said:me and my girlfriend were discussing things last night, and over time we reaalized that our dreams can't come true. Her dad is pretty much forcing her to enlist in the military in September, and she's scared to tell him no. She doesn't want to be in the military. She wants to be a cop, but he keeps pushing her to enlist when she turns sixteen. If she enlists, all our dreams together go right down the toilet. And that's just the first way they are down the toilet.
I've always wanted to be a Marine since I was five. Well, if she enlists then I can't enlist because there's a 99% chance that we won't get stationed near each other. That was way two.
The third way is that if either of us enlist, then there's no chance of us being able to get so much as a civil union because the military is just a big gagglefrag of homophobes.
Now for the fourth. We want to adopt a child when I' m 18-20 and she's 19-21. If either of us enlist, then we can't do that. Sperm banks also aren't an option because you can't enlist if you are the designated caregiver to a child (aka a single parent)so there's five.
And then there's also the fact that I have heart issues which means I can't enlist until after they are fixed. So there's six.
Uhm, let's see, what else.......oh, and her stepdad is being a total jerk about her enlisting. she's scared to enlist, and she has told him that she doesn't want to, and then he blames me for it, and then she gives in because she doesn't want me to take the blame, even though I've told her that I will take the blame if it means she doesn't have to go. I just love her so much and don't want both of our dreams to go to nothing like they are about to. I guess we could always make new dreams, but I'm still thinking that it's best if we break up again, I just don't know what to do.
That's pretty much pure copypasta, with slight editing for clarity.
so, your advice? i will pass all advice on to her.
thanks in advance.